I have a toothache. I have for a while. My parents keep telling me that I need to see the dentist. They’ve even offered to pay for it. The money isn’t the problem. My real problem is I am terrified of dentists–like throw up at the thought of going terrified. I keep telling them I’m fine and the pain isn’t too bad, but I think my mom can tell I’m hurting worse than I’m letting on. Plus, my cheek has started swelling. Tonight she sat me down and said that people die from infected teeth and she’s very worried about me. Is that true or is she just saying that to get me to go? My mom tends to think of all the worst case scenarios (that are unlikely) because she’s a worrier. If she’s right, what is the easiest procedure I can have to fix this?
Andrea
Dear Andrea,
I’m very glad you wrote. I’ll start by saying your mother is correct. People die from tooth infections every year. This is because your jaw is close to your throat, heart, lungs, and brain. Once the infection gets out of your tooth and spreads, it becomes very dangerous.
Something that starts as a dental emergency (a tooth infection), can quickly turn life threatening if it spreads to one of those areas. Your cheek is swollen, which tells me it has already begun to spread.
Let’s address the dental anxiety first, because knowing you need to go to the dentist and being able to are two different things. It sounds like you have rather severe anxiety. I’m going to suggest that you see a sedation dentist, specifically one who offers oral conscious sedation.
This is administered by a pill, but it is STRONG. This pill will completely relax you, enabling you to not only get the dental care you desperately, need, but allow you to do so in an anxiety free/pain free way. I think you will find it will change your life.
One thing you need to be aware of is that, because of its strength, you will need someone to drive you to and from your dental appointment as well as stay with you for a few hours at home until you are lucid and steady on your feet. I bet your mother would be willing to do that.
Treatment Options
Ideally, you would be able to save your tooth by having a root canal treatment. If that is no longer possible, then the tooth will have to be extracted and replaced.
The best tooth replacement option is a dental implant. This will be the closest thing to having a healthy natural tooth in your mouth again. There are other options if that is too expensive.
The good news is, once you try dental sedation, it will help you with that anxiety, which will allow you to get the care you need much sooner. You’ll find early intervention means much easier treatments.
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